Abundance COACH

The Money Belief Breakthrough: My Money Mindset Shift

I coach on money mindset because I lived through the struggle of a deeply ingrained scarcity mindset. From a young age, I was surrounded by conflicting messages about money that shaped my beliefs for years.

Raised Catholic and later converting to Christianity, I was taught that "money is the root of all evil." This belief created a sense of guilt around wealth, making me feel that desiring financial success was selfish or wrong. The shame associated with money made it hard to feel worthy of abundance.

But it wasn’t just religious conditioning—it was also the financial habits I witnessed growing up.

My mother, a single mom raising four kids, managed every penny with extreme caution. Money was for survival, not abundance. I remember being punished for using a paper towel before it was completely soiled. Food was scarce, and if I ate something my mom had planned for later, I’d be in trouble. We lived in a constant state of saving, but never thriving.

At 14, I moved in with my dad, who was the complete opposite. He spent money as fast as he made it, was always behind on bills, and often paid his employees late. His reckless financial habits left me even more confused. I was stuck between my mother’s extreme frugality and my father’s financial instability. This left me with the belief that I wasn’t worthy of making or keeping money.

Even when I did earn money, I felt an obligation to give it away—to family members who had never supported me, but who still needed help. I carried this weight for years.

Another deep wound was the shame I felt about my clothes. Growing up in the '70s, fashion mattered. Kids at school wore Dittos pants, Vans shoes, and the latest trends, while I wore outdated thrift store finds or hand-me-downs from my sisters. My mother often dressed us in identical outfits, so I would wear the same clothes years after my siblings had outgrown them. My pants were usually too short, making me an easy target for teasing.

I didn’t just feel different—I felt shame. Not having the "right" clothes made me feel like I didn’t belong. I tied my sense of self-worth to financial status, believing that success and value were measured by wealth.

For so long, I felt guilty for wanting more. Even when I achieved financial success, I struggled to keep it without feeling like I had to give it away. I had to heal my relationship with money and rewrite the beliefs I had carried for so long—especially the idea that money was something to feel guilty about.

Your Money Breakthrough Starts Here

This course is designed to help you break free from scarcity thinking and step into financial abundance. I want to guide you through the same transformation I experienced—so you can finally feel worthy of wealth and keep what you create without guilt or shame.

You deserve more than survival—you deserve to thrive.

🚀 Are you ready to shift your money mindset and claim your financial success? Let’s do this together!

Here are eight abundance blocks 

According to the book "The Desire Factor" by Christy Whitman

Lack of Self-Worth: Believing you're not deserving of wealth or success.

Fear of Failure: The anxiety of not succeeding or losing money.  

Fear of Rejection: The worry of being judged or ridiculed for your financial goals.

Resistance to Change: Fear of the unknown or discomfort with new financial habits.  

Perfectionism: The need to have everything perfect before taking action.  

Procrastination: Putting off important financial decisions or actions.  

Self-Sabotage: Unconsciously sabotaging your own financial success.  

Lack of Clarity: Not having clear goals or a plan for achieving financial abundance.

These blocks can manifest in various ways, such as limiting beliefs, negative self-talk, and avoidance behaviors.

"8 Spiritual Secrets for Multiplying Your Money" 

According to Mary Morrissey 

Here's a summary:

Your Right to Be Rich: This principle emphasizes that abundance is your birthright and that you are worthy of financial prosperity.

Overcoming Your Abundance Blocks: This involves identifying and releasing limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns that hinder financial growth.

The Law of Circulation: This principle focuses on the importance of giving and receiving. It suggests that by generously giving to others, you open the flow of abundance in your own life.

The Law of Attraction: This principle states that you attract into your life what you focus on. By focusing on abundance and prosperity, you increase the likelihood of experiencing it.

Generating Greater Flow: This involves cultivating a mindset of gratitude and appreciation for the abundance already present in your life.

Changing Your Mindset from Getting to Giving: This shift in perspective emphasizes the importance of serving others and making a positive impact on the world.

The Inflection Point: This refers to the moment when you make a conscious decision to shift your beliefs and take action towards financial abundance.

The Extra Mile Formula: This principle encourages going the extra mile in your work and personal life, exceeding expectations, and consistently striving for excellence.

Disclaimer:

These principles are based on spiritual and philosophical beliefs.

Financial success depends on various factors, including hard work, wise financial decisions, and market conditions.

How to Overcome the 3 Most Sabotaging Subconscious Blocks Around Money

Identify and Challenge Limiting Beliefs:

"Money is the root of all evil": Replace with "Money is a tool that can be used for good."

"I'm not worthy of wealth": Replace with "I am deserving of abundance and prosperity."

"I'm not good with money": Replace with "I am learning and growing in my financial knowledge."